The best and worst thing about planning a wedding for a gay or lesbian couple are all the possibilities.
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Almost every vendor we interviewed assumed my wife was the bride and I was the “friend.” Who’s the groom? They inevitably ask her. “I am,” I’d chime in.
My Maid of Honor and beautiful straight sister wrote this guest post for us. Her experience planning my bachelorette party gave her some tips to share for other gay wedding party participants. Thanks, Sis!
Do the parent dances at a gay wedding have to change because the couple are two women or two men? We thought a lot about the traditional father/daughter and mother/son dances typical at weddings.
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When you’re planning your wedding, the fantastic part about being lesbian or gay is the freedom to choose which traditions you’ll keep, and how you’ll keep them. If you choose to have a first dance, the possibilities are truly endless. Who will lead, who will follow, or will both? Will your song be a romantic old torch song, an indie alternative, or a little bit of opera?
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In this interview on WUML Radio I talk about the wedding, coming out and taxes.
The number one question I got asked when I told people I was getting married was, “So what are you wearing to the wedding?” I’m typically not a dress wearing, high heel walking kind of a gal but the idea of shopping for a gown and walking down the aisle in one was exciting to me.
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Question: What do two lesbians wear to their wedding?
Answer: Whatever they want.
You thought I was going to say “sex” didn’t you? While I love me some Salt-n-Pepa, when you’re gay or lesbian and planning your wedding it’s the m-word that may be the hard thing to talk about.
My film The Gay Marriage Thing was made specifically to jump start these difficult conversations. A quiet story, [...]



