It’s all about the DJ

As I’ve mentioned before, our DJ, Guy Nicotra from NuImage Entertainment, was “‘da bomb.” We received so many compliments on the music, dancing and on his personality. As you may or may not know, the DJ acts as the Master of Ceremony for many wedding receptions. They give the reception structure and help move the night along from introductions through dances and toasts to cutting the cake and finally last dance. It is important to have a great entertainer and leader for this position, yet someone who will listen to your input and make sure you and your guests are comfortable.

Two things that were important to us were playing music we liked to dance to and that no one be made to feel uncomfortable. We didn’t want any bouquet or garter tosses and wanted both straight and gay couples to feel comfortable dancing on the same floor. I’ve been uncomfortable at some straight weddings and I hate being singled out a wedding in front of 200 people. Let people drink and act a fool on their own terms.

Guy really heard us and played a good mix of songs I gave him and songs he mixed in. He did a center-piece giveaway where everyone danced around their tables, but instead of singling people out, he had a unique game with a 5 dollar bill, a table full of people and a fully charged soundtrack. It energized everyone and got the whole reception on the dance floor which they never left.

We asked Guy how it was to work our lesbian wedding and whether it was different from straight weddings he’s worked. These were his thoughts:

Dear Steff,

I hope things are going well for you and Galit and that you are enjoying every moment together. As far as the wedding and my experience with you, what can I say, I was working with a young couple in love with a little twist. A wall was overcome and It was about celebration. A Romeo and Juliet or should I say Juliet and Juliet story only with a happy ending. The reception was spectacular with only a few alterations to fit the occasion. Having you dance with your brothers for thanks and support I think was a great touch and also help keep structure of the reception. I do have to say that the biggest difference I notice was the overwelming joy in your guests faces, much more than the day to day weddings I’ve done. They as-well as I were so happy to be apart of your special day.

Best Wishes!

Guy Nicotra
NuImage Entertainment

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