Finally got around to uploading a video clip of our first dance. You can see us next on Dancing with the Stars. 
We got this question a lot in the after we got engaged. The answer is different for every couple, some decide mutually, in some couples one person asks the other and in some they wake up the next morning and ask “are we married?”
There was no question to us who would lead in our first dance song. Galit has the brains and I have the feet. Neither of us are good at giving up control, but in our relationship dynamic it made sense for me to lead and Galit to follow. Since we had no real clue how to slow dance together (bumping and grinding for the first dance having been dismissed as a bit tacky), so we both had to learn how to dance.
Do the parent dances at a gay wedding have to change because the couple are two women or two men? We thought a lot about the traditional father/daughter and mother/son dances typical at weddings.
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